How to be Happy with No Money
Most entrepreneurs don’t like to admit when they’re broke. It’s honestly difficult for me to admit it publicly. We don’t want it to be perceived as a representation of our success, capabilities or confidence.
But here I am, I’m bootstrapping a startup and I am broke. I have about 3 months of rent left in my bank account and already one maxed out credit card. I don’t have an income.
In order to make my money last as long as possible while we work on Feast, I’ve adapted my lifestyle in order to stay frugal.
I cook every meal, every day. I ride my bike everywhere instead of taking public transit. I pass on more fun experiences like concerts, day trips and nights out. I started growing my own food though I haven’t reached harvest yet so not too much saved. I haven’t bought new clothes other than a couple things from the thrift store in over a year. I buy all my furniture from salvation army or craigslist.
I pretty much only spend money on food, rent and Feast with the occasional experience.
And I’m the happiest I’ve been in a long time.
There are a number of reasons that I’m in a really good place right now mentally, emotionally and physically. Not all of them are because I’m broke, but I realized many of them are related.
You’ll never be more focused
Having limited funds and a short timeline does wonders for your focus.
There’s no bullshit right now. Zero.
With Feast, we have absolute clarity about what we’re doing and why. Since starting the company I don’t think we’ve ever felt this sure of ourselves. We’re building a product that we absolutely believe in and focusing on solving a fundamental problem that people truly need and are willing to pay for.
We used to be distracted by a lot of things because we had the luxury of time. With time, it’s easy to spread your focus out over things that aren’t that important.
Focus is something I’ve always struggled with on a personal level as well. I imagine most people have struggled with it. The pressure of not having money makes it a lot easier to keep your head in the game. Your life depends on it.
Experiences become richer
Now when I do go out for dinner, drinks or an event it feels special. When I had disposable income, I did fun stuff several times a week. I’d eat out with friends constantly. I’d go to multiple happy hours.
I would say yes to as many experiences as possible. When you go out for dinner 4 times a week it becomes the norm and you no longer appreciate it.
But when it becomes something you do once every 4 weeks it truly becomes an experience.
You find joy in simpler routines
Since I don’t go out as much, I have more time to myself and I’ve experimented with new routines to improve my life without spending any money.
I grow my garden, I wake up earlier every day, I run in the mornings, I read more, I write every day. These are the types of things that we sacrifice in order to go out drinking, to go to events, to go to concerts and other gatherings.
I’m in the best shape of my life because of the routines I’ve built, not the gym membership I bought or the expensive equipment I wear.
You can’t buy mental, emotional or physical health. When we have money, sometimes we try to anyway. We pay for experiences and social events that are meant to make us happy.
Without money, you’re forced to realize that true happiness comes from how you manage yourself on a daily basis, not what experiences you can check off your list.
It’s important to know your best worst case scenario
Whenever I feel afraid or stressed about my financial situation, I remember to think about my best worst case scenario. And yes, it scares me when I don’t address it properly.
When you really think about it though, when you get specific, you realize that if everything crashes and burns, you’ll be alright. It actually won’t be nearly as bad as the irrational fear of failure makes it out to be. In fact, it might be pretty damn good.
In America we put so much stock in financial stability that we perceive running out of money to be the end of days. It’s probably not.
Obviously there are unique situations to take into account here. I’m fortunate in that I have an amazing support system of friends and family who would never let me sleep on the street. Others may not have the luxuries I have. Even still, if you’re motivated enough to give a startup everything you’ve got then you shouldn’t have a problem finding new opportunities if it fails.
Relying on a founder support system
My family and friends have been an amazing support system. Also hugely helpful is my founder network.
The reason this is so important is because you realize that you’re not the only one struggling.
The startup world is built on the foundation of a certain perception, of looking like you’re successful, of exuding confidence…and that’s all great. But it doesn’t send an honest message to other founders who are struggling through every day. It doesn’t let them in on the real state of things, which they might be able to relate to.
Well let this post be a reminder for those of you who think you’re alone in your struggles. You’re not. And if you’re an entrepreneur, look out for other entrepreneurs. When they ask you how it’s going, you don’t always have to put on that fake smile and lie through your teeth. Look them in the eye and tell them the truth. You might really help them by being honest.
Work with meaning
Thing is, none of that would matter if I didn’t feel that the work I’m doing was meaningful.
Even if I do run out of money, I won’t stop working on Feast. It’s something I believe in too strongly. If we fail, I’d feel genuinely satisfied having worked on something meaningful, that I truly believed in. What better way could you possibly spend your time?
If you’re working on something for any other reason that it’s a problem you truly want to see solved in the world, it will be really hard to make it through the tough times. Doesn’t matter what investors, advisors or anyone else tell you to work on.
Work on what you believe in. Otherwise it’s not worth the sacrifice.
Have you bootstrapped your startup? Have you ever been broke? I’d love to hear your stories. Please share them in the comments.